woohoo option not there

i honestly dont know how long its been like this because ive had ww in my game for a few months, but yesterday i decided i wanted to go back to wonderful whims so i removed ww from my mods folder and my saves folder. when i created a new save i realised woohoo isnt even an option on my game like the option isnt there when you click on beds and other places you can woohoo. i saw a lot of people saying its due to broken mods so i moved all of my mods and cc out of my game and also deleted the localthumbcache so i could see if it works without mods and its still not an option. (i have all the dlc and im really cautious with what mods to add to my game and consistently check for updates so i dont have any broken mods, my mods folder is super organised) idk if its ea or what but helpppp

edit: oh my god never mind i fixed it myself. if youre having this issue then do these things

delete localthumbcache and move / disable mods in your game so u can test if theyre the problem

if they are the problem - delete any mods that might mess with woohoo interactions (ww, wonderful whims etc) (they also have folders in your save file so make sure to go onto ur save file in ur sims 4 folder and delete those folders)

if theyre not the problem - make sure your sims are woohoo compatible (like if ur doing wlw make sure they both have woohoo with women checked)