[PS4/XB1] Updating Graphics Settings Message

I'm having this same issue. It's ridiculous. It only ever does this during temporary lag, like exiting build mode, but it never "adjusts" itself when the game is consistently lagging. My game will do this on it's own about 4 times within an hour of gameplay and then all the textures look like complete mush... Paintings are blurry, posters are blurry, furniture, flooring and wallpaper textures look almost unrecognizable and it forces me to restart my game because NO ONE wants to play like that, especially not on a new gen console! Then after I try to restart it, it won't even open. It'll say "The Sims 4 took too long to start." and then I'll quit from the dashboard and try to open it again and It'll be stuck closed for the next 2-3 minutes, and then it repeats when I try again... So I have to restart my whole console just so I can get it out of the loop of being stuck closed and try to finally open my game again. It's such a trash "feature". Just GIVE me the option.