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John_Zonbi
Seasoned Ace
8 years ago

Can't Get Married

Ever since the November 7th update I have been unable to get married. Even on a new game. Repaired game. NO mods. All DLC.

I am trying to marry my fiancee at the Sanmyshoeno or whatever you call it park for weddings. The arch just gives fantasize about wedding. There are no social options on either of our Sims. I tried getting us friendly and flirty to see if its now hidden under emotion and conversation types like some interactions tend to be like ask to move in requires a friendly conversation before it appears still nothing. I am so sick and tired of this broken game! Fix it already! This type of stuff is worse than a Early Access game on Steam made in Unity!

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  • Hi @John_Zonbi

    Try resetting your user files as described in the factory reset described in this post: http://answers.ea.com/t5/The-Sims-4/FAQ-Troubleshooting-Steps-amp-Known-Issues/m-p/3621199

    You won't loose anything. Just make sure to not delete any files  and make a backup.

    After renaming, repair your game by right clicking on the game in Origin.

    Try on a new game with nothing added back first (start new game). If it works, put back your save game and try again. If it still works, you can start putting stuff back.

    • Options.ini (or just re-set all your settings manually)
    • Tray Folder
    • Screenshots/Videos/Custom music
    • Rest of the save games (leave out slot_00000001.save which is the autosave)
    • Custom content like clothing, hair, skins, make up ....
    • Mods (one by one, making sure they all still work)

    The rest does not need putting back, cause they are mostly cache files that recreate or log files that are not needed for the game.

  • jpkarlsen's avatar
    jpkarlsen
    Hero (Retired)
    8 years ago

    You need to Propose before the option to get married appears on the wedding arch.

    Once you have successfully proposed (a sim can decline) the Above option becomes available a long with the socials Elope and Plan wedding.