So I did so many combinations of fixes I'm not actually sure if the repair helped but with the uninstalling of all the MSI software I figured it wouldn't hurt. I opened Origin, went into my library, right clicked the Sims icon, did a file validation/repair then I went into game properties and typed Windowed for special commands. It actually doesn't play windowed but it did require me to put that command in and then it immediately came up.
I read somewhere how that portion was a fix for others and specifically issues with an MSI laptop. They went on to discuss a conflict of graphics card also where it was recognizing something onboard when really it was an independent card. I didn't quite understand I guess it was trying to open it with both and they cancelled out.
So my fix was basically uninstall EVERYTHING using Revo that said MSI. I did them one by one and still had the black screen blue ring problem until all of them were gone. Even the battery calibration tool, color tool, everything. My laptop works fine (and is even faster).I just don't have those tools (that I didn't really use anyway). Any tool like software that came with this laptop had to go and then the game pops up no problem every time.
Thank you so much for helping me with this issue - I swear Steam, EA, no one even addresses this issue or will respond I was so frustrated. Its seriously very kind of you to share your knowledge. I would have had no idea what to do and just lost money and patience and been unable to use it.