recent update can't load into lots or households

Since the February update I've had not been able to play the game for real. I can't load into lots or households and it doesn't matter if I have mods or not IT DOES NOT WORK. I've tried quite literally everything to fix it at this point it's a game issue, everything is updated. The game is 14 years old and built like spaghetti, it's a game issue, and not only that but the events with your game too which doesn't help the situation because of the current one right now. I'm at lost of how to continue which is frustrating and sad because this game costs ridiculous amounts to get the full experience. I've also put in enough for this game to not be functioning like it currently is. I'm just waiting on a patch at this point from the actual game.  

[CM edit - profanity]