Sims 4 baby taken away

I'm having a similar issue?? I had 2 Sims woohoo and they had a baby from it, but when I try to have them care for the same baby as an aged up toddler they just close the command! I had the toddler taken away despite commanding all 3 adults in the home to care for her. I even tried hiring a nanny 3 times but they took forever to show up and then never came inside despite the door and gates being unlocked. I ended up just aging her to a child and removing her entirely.

I don't use mods or anything, just the motherlode and ignore career unlock cheats, and the only pack I have is the vampire one. I'm so frustrated.