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Anonymous
9 years ago

Teenage sim's boyfriend is single

Hello. I just encountered a new issue regarding romantic relationships.

I have a teenage sim in my household who was in a romantic relationship with another teenager sim. Both the green friendship bar and pink romance bar were almost all the way full, they had gone on several dates together, and I have used the "ask to be boyfriend" and "exchange promise rings" interactions in the past. I have never had them break up, ask to just be friends, etc. When I highlight my sim's boyfriend in the relationship panel, their relationship says that they are "lovers," "sweethearts," and "promised".

I recently switched my teen sim's aspiration to the serial romantic aspiration, and one of the first requirements is to have a boyfriend or girlfriend, which was not being counted as complete. I thought that the aspiration might just be bugged, but I also noticed that my sim had the option to use the "ask if single" interaction on the other sim, and the notification says that "[My sim] learned that he is single!"

The other sim is still a teenager, so it is not an issue with one of them aging up to YA before the other.

I've tried repairing the game and clearing cache, neither of which did anything. I do use CC (but not mods), and I have also tried removing the CC, and am still having this issue.

So in summary, the issue is that, although these two sims have a nearly full friendship and romance bar and have used the interactions to become boyfriend / girlfriend, for some reason, the game is still counting them as single.

3 Replies

  • jpkarlsen's avatar
    jpkarlsen
    Hero (Retired)
    9 years ago

    Are you able to ask to be boyfriend/girlfriend again?

    I have noticed that as a child/teenager if you change aspiration to something that requires you to have a certain number of friends you always start out on 0 regardless if you already have 1 or more friends. For instance as child select the Rambunctious scamp aspiration. While building that up make some friends when this is fulfilled change to Social butterfly and status will say you have 0 friends despite them being in the relationship panel.

  • Hi @Nolee101

    I've tested this on my game and while I don't know about the aspiration (could be normal as @jpkarlsen says as you weren't playing them at the time), I don't have the issue with the Ask if Single interaction. The other Sim is counting as my Sims boyfriend and is saying so.

    Is this a new relationship or did you do it before the propose bug was fixed ? Are you using mods/cc ?