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@Fuzzernutter No it's just the game trying to get you to make friends with someone. If you click on it, it will say "Friend request Sent". It helps new players find friends to connect to in Game. ☺
@PaQuilter1 Are you sure? I was told you get these notices when another player's sim starts a relationship with your sim.
The game trying to find friends for a sim I retired and is no longer in the game ?
I also got this notice from a random player who came to my last party. This player's male sim met my 4 sims at my party. The notice was the same as I mentioned above . I believe this player's male sim started a relationship with one of my male sim's in their game. I got the synergy notice after this random player came to my party.
I have gotten several of these notices. One stands out thought. I got the synergy notice. I never clicked on it to send the player a friends request. this same player kept sending me friends requests which I denied. If the synergy notice is in fact the start of a relationship, i felt like the player was adding me so they could request my sim move in their game. I personally don't want these kinds of request. I don't give away my sims. After I refused to add this person, the sim they requested kept getting scary stickers all the time. My sim was not dressed in scary fashion. I don't care about getting the sticker since it equals a izzy gem but I felt like there was a player out there angry they could not have my sim so I felt like a sticker target.
The way these romantic relationships are set up, it's not fair to the owner of the sim or the other player trying to use other player's sims in a romantic relationship should that player want to use the move in request.
@Fuzzernutter There are two types of notifications we get. One says "Is that a spark of synergy between...". That one is the one I was talking about. The other one says that you have received relationship points between SIM X and your SIM X. Those notifications mean that your SIM is in a relationship with someone else's SIM. When someone else's SIM has a relationship with your Sim they can have kids, get married anything without requiring your SIM to move out. It's only a problem when they ask your SIM to move into their game. That's where the problem is because we have no way to let them know they can't have ours, other than to say "ignore". That part really needs work.😊
@PaQuilter1I have only gotten one where I got coins.
I know players can do whatever they want with your sim in there game. Yes the move in is a big problem. There should be some kind of accept or deny early on in the game. I know some people have allot of sim children and want to move them out quicker. Those of us that don't should have the option to deny to let the other player know, find another sim if you want to marry and move them in.
They should add job, relationship status, ect to original sim so the other player knows if the sim is married, in a relationship, engaged. if the sim is up for retirement.
I don't know if this is true , but I was told if your original sim is married in your game another player can not marry your sim in their game. This is even before the move in.
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