Relationship glitch?

Your list consists of all relationships friends, lovers, family. . They show up but grayed out for a reason. They are grayed out because you can't cuddle or make babies with your relatives. The game is already blocking this from happening. It's not a bug or a glitch 

@whackywhippet234 Yes! You’re not alone!

I’ve noticed this the last couple days, too. It’s more than just all your contacts, at least for some actions, like relatives showing (greyed out, thankfully, like @Fuzzernutter said) on things like Woohoo in a Hot Tub at a party. 

For example, here’s what “Tuck In” using a toddler bed is doing:

First, there was about 14 Rows of NPCs - non playable characters - like Izzy, the grim reaper, and the characters you may or may not interact with in your careers. That’s about 56 NPC’s before I see a toddler to perform the action with. But the row with my first toddler and the following rows until I reach my other toddler are all “strangers”, zero contacts. Then the last row is three more NPCs - specifically, the ones from the Science Center, the most recently unlocked building in my game. 

The Sim performing the action has 38 contacts, including relatives. She does not have a career at the science center, though all my Sims are pitching in on the current Quest for the Space Explorer Career so she could have walked by them - but that’s a stretch. 

So, yeah, Sims that you can’t perform the action with are greyed out, but why are 50+ NPCs showing at all on an action that can only be performed with a toddler? 

@GrettaInTheSun You seem to have a bug.  OP does not have a bug and their game looks normal.  Someone else I spoke to has a bug like your talking about. I would post your issue in the bug section and fill out a bug report since your issue is not the same as the op in this thread  https://answers.ea.com/t5/Bug-Reports/bd-p/the-sims-mobile-bug-reports-en

@Fuzzernutter Thanks. Mine’s also doing what the OPs is, and it’s not a problem so much as an oddity. Plus, I like that I can call over a Sim to a party to perform an action that I couldn’t have before. It might be rude to Woohoo in someone’s hot tub at their party, but it’s worth 75 party XP! Both things started at the same time. I’ll scan through existing tickets to see if it’s there already if that’s possible, and submit a ticket after I’ve attended my parties today. A little selfish, I know. 

@GrettaInTheSun OP does not have a problem. Their game is normal.  Your game should look like theirs but if you have 50 NPC on your list to do interactions with that would be a bug 

The Grim Reaper? Lol what in the world??

But I noticed the same "issue" when I was at a party. When I went to perform an action, 2 kids popped up but were blocked out. I didn't really think much of it though. 

I know that but I don't want it to be there period when it comes to having a baby or cuddling. @Fuzzernutter

@GrettaInTheSun that happened to me too. Well, not the woohoo stuff, but I could actually tell my sims lover or friends to come to the party and cuddle or play games with.... And I normally could never do that at parties because I qoute on quote "didn't have any friends. I'm guessing mine isn't as bad as yours because my sims don't know as many as your sims does so mine is a smaller problem.

@whackywhippet234 I suspect it's the coding in the game and they can't change that ,why they just have a block preventing relatives from doing things that should not happen. this is a phone game and they can do allot more with PC. The game does not recognize say great uncle or great grandfather, second cousins. They can marry . The sims games have always been this way and they can only keep relative calculations for so long. Even if you look at your family portrait it will not tell you who is related to who and how they are related. The game won't tell you who is married to who. 

You can have babies with anyone on your sims friends list if the relationship ,romantic or friends is at level 3. Many players choose to just have children without marrying one specific sim . That is the way the game is designed. 

 The game also permits two female sims or two male sims to have babies together. 

Thats the problem right there, i dont want to see any of that. @Fuzzernutter and i have the same problem too as the other player.