Ideas
EA should remove the check toddler/infant/baby from being actionable all together, when I have multiple babies, infants, toddlers the parents just lose all their queued actions to "check toddler/infant/baby" as soon as one of the needs hits the red and if I cancel it out I sometimes just get this constant stand around and do nothing "hesitation" in the sim because I cancelled the action and suddenly the sim is unresponsive because I cancelled the check toddler/infant/baby - a reset is required. It's soooo frustrating to spend time queuing an action only for a "check toddler/infant/baby" to overwrite all the queued actions. If I queue something I don't want the game auto "check toddler/infant/baby" to even appear but more importantly if I queue an item the "check toddler/infant/baby" should not push in front of my queued actions to begin with! This really needs to be looked into because my favourite lifestage is the infants but having my large families is difficult when my sims keep dropping the queue to push the "check toddler/infant/baby" which just delays tending to the infant in the first place. I've been playing single mothers for awhile because having a partner just makes the tending to the infant more difficult as the other parent interrupts my queued actions to "check infant". I've pretty much given up on two parent households if I plan to have lots of children or I've played that the other parent has a job in the "city" that requires them to live in another household and just do stayovers when I want that parent around the kids.