Household Sims travel to lots even when not selected and then won't go home

I've been having this issue since the April 29th patch and since I bought and downloaded Business and Hobbies on May 10th.

Whenever I want to travel to another lot with one of my household sims, all of the sims in that household (not including pets) will travel with them, even when they aren't selected to. When I think click the 'house' icon on their pictures (to send them home) they just don't. The sims walk over to their teleporting section to leave the lot and return home, vanish for a second and then return. This means wherever I go, all of my households sims follow. It is incredibly infuriating for story-telling purposes!

This happens with or without mods.

I play on a MacBook Air (2022).