[LD] Reaper Career: Mentor Coworker missing

Yeah it is not there for me either. I have a sim in the romance consultant career and an option on the computer she needed for her daily work task wasn't there either. Someone figured out that it only showed up for the sim if they were in a flirty mood. I've tried applying that method of thinking to this reaper problem and I think focus is the main thing for a reaper, but I can't figure out how to get my sim in a focused mood to try it. I guess I will see if there is a potion I can buy for that and try it and see. I didn't bother because I am not going to buy a potion every time, but I suppose just to know, one time won't hurt.