Sim not responding immediately task/action

The moment I downloaded the Cottage Living expansion Nov 26, 2025 the game began to do this. I could live, but then I bought the Garden to Table pack and it has not been the same since. I bought an external drive with a terabyte and unlimited internet thinking it was the issue, but it was not. Giving up because I want more gameplay and build items, I recently took advantage of the publisher deal and bought over $99 worth of expansion packs- Get Together, For Rent, Island Living, Snowy Escape, and City Living and now it has become UNBEARABLE! It takes forever to load, and now it takes about 3 real life minutes and several clicks of an object for the action/task menu to appear then when I click she does not move, sometimes staying stuck for Sim hours, while gameplay like phone calls etc are happening. Moving the camera/scrolling to a different view? Forget about it! No CC. No Mods. This was reported 9 months ago but it's still happening.