Update/ Lovestruck super buggy

After downloading Lovestruck I had major issues with my children being three blocks away when I would come home from work; it would take forever for my furniture to load so I couldn’t have my sims do anything but stand there for a minute. I thought maybe the new world was the problem so I built a new house in a world I play often (Hedford on Bagley) and same issues. My infants will somehow be blocks away laying on the ground if I leave the lot at all for any reason. I constant “reset/debug” items and sims and still it fight with the delay or a sim will get stuck on trying to hold an infant that doesn’t need any care, I’ll debug the infant and still the adult sim will ignore any commands I give, and will drain their needs because they just keep trying to pick up the infant. It’s getting really irritating. I have repaired the game a couple times, hoping that would help. It hasn’t.