being punished in ranked for bad server

why is it my games will be 20-30 ping then randomly have a 350 plus ping game whole party- and when i restart my game it says couldn't rejoin game ABANDANMENT PENALTY -40 and loss of 10min any my party also had the 130-400 ping for a random bad server. punishing me for a bad server is something  cant tolerate as a consumer!!! ps my network latency was only like 15 no packet loss. still have 1gig up and down it was 100% bad server and its the 3ed time today!