How to fix Third party...fourth party...etc

  It isn't simple I know, it takes objective evaluation of your own play.

A lot of people blame everything else when they lose a fight. 

I'm telling you don't do that.  Look at every scenario where you lose and say "what could I have done differently to get a better outcome?"

  Especially when playing with randoms.  My set 3 are long gone, and I am taking a break from this game now, but I did play with a lot of randoms and sometimes you need to make the hard call and do what is right for you when they don't listen or do dumb things.

Just watch your play and ask yourself that and you will see in time you will get better, you will learn from things you didn't even know were wrong.

also side note:

"Anyways apex will lose so many players when battlefield 2042 will be released"

lulz I bet you wish you could have this back?  😛