Lag Compensation - ruins the game!

It's honestly funny being told to check your connection, when I've literally played Apex with another person on the same Wi-Fi, both of us were wireless, and when we had issues like lag, our 3rd (who was a random) complained about the problem as well.

Which leads me to believe it's a server issue, more or less problems with a data center. When we last played, it was on October 31st, 2021, and we were playing Shadow Fall. The lag we've experienced, was similar to a DDOS attack, as everyone in the game around us were in slow motion, a team was squad wiping a lot of players, and our 3rd got disconnected and didn't seem to be able to rejoin. Then the team killing everyone got sniped and the lag stopped.

Can we honestly get better servers, or at the very least not get told to check our connections everytime it's clearly a server issue?