Lagged out of game and got penalized

Middle of a ranked match when me and my friend both got D-Dos(that's what we suspected because our other friend didn't lag out of the match)out at the same time. We try and get back in whenever it gives me and him code:over we tried again immediately then it gave us code:cloud. We tried again then it just put us back in the lobby whenever the game was still going on. I lost 90rp for absolutely nothing I did wrong. All it told me was that I went afk. I feel like if I lag out I shouldn't get penalized. At least if I had evidence of it. Apex pls setup something on ps5 where I can send clips to y'all so that you can fix this issue.