Ranked matches terminated and slowed

I am getting fed up with this, it's the second time this has happened.   I was playing ranked and one player abandoned my team, yet me and the other player were doing good and surviving.  Suddenly we got into a fight and the game slowed down and looked like a slow motion fight out of the matrix, then suddenly the lobby was on the screen and I was out of the match, and it gave me a 10 minute abandoned game penalty. 

I didn't abandon this game, I was doing fairly well considering 1 player did abandon us, and yet I was cheated out of thus match and accused of abandoning it.

Also, all day the game slows down when too many people are on the screen at once.

Can't you guys fix this?  Why do you penalize me for your mistake when cheaters in every game get no penalty???

I'm very upset right now because I work hard for my accomplishments in these games and to make me play slower than others or terminate my games for no reason isn't fair.  

Not enough budget for better servers?  Then make the game a pay service.  I'd gladly pay $50 per month to play a version of this game that had no slow motion fights and no unfair termination of matches.