hi there, i seem to have found a temp fix
it's a tool named islc"Intelligent standby list cleaner" that basically "will monitor and clear the memory standby list according to the configured options parameter you set.
It should help users who have stutters in games when using windows 10 Creator update and higher version of windows." (according to the site)
without the tool my game crashes every single game but with it running in the background the game stopped crashing.
i guess it monitors the cpu and prevents what ever causing the crash from happening.
of course this is not a complete fix but it helped let me play the game and avoid the crash, not sure if i can link the program though as im not sure if it's against the rules.
if anyone could try it, that would be great.
once you have it installed set it up similar to this https://imgur.com/8qGosBg
ps: when you open the program it open in the background and you can find it next to the wifi bar.
edit: fixed a couple of things and added a bit of info