Thank you for your response, but unfortunately none of those helped me. Here are some details about my problems that can help:
1, it only occurs in the first game of my session, so everytime a restart the game it happens again
2, i have watched my fps and when a lag spike occurs its lower, and my ms and packet loss are usually high also, so this could be a connectivity issue
3, i have also realised that when it says who connects into the game it repeats, this indicates also that it could be a connectivity issue
after the first match everything is fine, no lag spikes, nothing. Its just annoying that i have to throw away a game and waste my time because of this. I have played since launch and i had some breaks, but when i came back now i have this issue that i cannot solve.
Also i did the UOTrace so i am gonna attach the results, but i havent seen anything suspicious.