Server Error Or Lobby Error

I dont know is this my Internet or The Game Server or even the lobby idk, but when i launch apex it says enable to connect to ea server, but i i chang my data server to Singapore 1 and i finally i can join my friend lobby, but inside the lobby something weird happened, at the lobby my friend says that they have ready but on my screen, they aren't ready, but it took so long until they seen ready in my screen, after they ready icon pop up, i press the ready button, but it says party are not ready and the match never started, what is actually happening?