Controls are messed up... AGAIN

Man... seriously, why? Why this is a thing on EVERY SINGLE BATTLEFIELD GAME? Why other games with aircraft has the controls all figured out, but SOMEHOW battlefield keeps making it a nightmare since 2002?

Seriously, I don't understand. Everybody that plays with planes decently uses basically  the same settings. There is no mystery or quirks. I go, I set this **bleep** up and after an update of more than 20GB, you mess up all my control settings.... again. WHY? Not only that, but now when I move the **bleep** mouse, the keyboard doesn't work. If I use the keyboard for movement, the input from my mouse is ignored. What the hell guys! It was fine before the update. Jesus...... CHRIST. I'm tired of wrestling with this **bleep** every single battlefield game. It must STOP.