I like how you end with how crossplay should still be disabled, even if you don't think console has a clear and blatant advantage.
I don't even care about the aim assist itself. I care how they get a recoil reduction. I care they get projectile guidance, even though EA will never admit they do. I care that the servers just do not work for consoles, yet here we are playing with them, I care about the cronus users that get to openly cheat while EA and Snoy/Microtrash do nothing about it.
It's amazing how everyone might disagree on so many things, yet here we all are asking for crossplay to be turned off, and EA is telling us where we can put those opinions by their actions.