Unplayable due to time nudge

I have not been able to play this game since launch due to unplayable time nudge issues. My computer is an Acer Predator Helios 300 (PH315-55 ) on Verizon Fios gigabit internet, with my device getting around 700mbps download and 300mbps upload. My specs should be able to handle this game easily and yet I still have every graphics setting on low/ultra performance in order to try to make it as easy on my game as possible.

No matter what I try (windows update, graphics driver update, game/computer restart, minimal graphics settings, etc) as soon as I enter a lobby I get the symbols for Time Nudge and packet loss, and my character drifts around the map like it's Mario Kart. I can empty a full mag into someone's back point blank and the shots won't register, and then I'll get killed through a wall. It's all the same stuff that so many people are experiencing with absolutely no response or solution from developers.

What's really annoying is I'll sit in the same room as 3 other friends, all of us with the same exact laptop and all of our settings set to the same things across game, computer, and Nvidia settings, and half of us will get issues and half won't. There's clearly some issue with EA servers that is inconsistent across players.

I've really only been able to play against bots my entire time owning this game since I can't play in lobbies with more than 16 people. At this point the devs need to either fix the issue or offer refunds to people who paid $80 for a game that they can't play even on lowest settings with rigs that should be able to handle it fine.