HATE the Controls for Option Game, Why Cant I Pick the Controls for Option Plays

I absolutely hate the way they designed the controls for the option game.  Holding the snap button to keep or give to RB without the ability to switch back to the old way is so frustrating.  I have been playing the mini games for over 2 hours but once you have played thousands of hours the old way, you cant unlearn the habit.  EA should give us the option to choose between the old way of running the option or picking the new way.  I am so frustrated by this that I am vowing to never buy another EA game period until this is fixed or they give us the option to choose the style of controls we want to use when running the option game that each individual player likes.  FIX IT EA, FIX IT !!!!