DA:I Multiplayer

There will be MP updates alright. What these will entail, I don't have any specifics at this time, though I understand they won't be dissimilar to ME3's updates. 

As for the issues you mention,I personally would like to see the Demon Commander's main attacks nerfed. Make his teleport telegraph more obvious and nerf his aoe stun pulse times.

I think the Red Templar Commander is fine actually. Much like the Revenant guardian, your tank needs to know when to Run Away. For the Red Templars, I'd rather see a nerf to Shadows. Perhaps make their decloak last a bit longer, so the mages get a bit more warning before they're instagibbed. 

I recently noticed that I can pick out cloaked units, they produce a bit of a warped background effect where they walk, and if you can hit them they decloak. Just a little tip player to player ; )

P.S.
Do you think the venatori and their commander are a bit weak?

Aye, I like that the ripple is visible, but only if you're focusing on it. While ideally they'll be focused down as a priority, if that's not possible putting a dot with a visual effect on the Shadow can also help. A blurry flame conspiculously sauntering past the tank is easy enough to pick out. 

I'd definitely consider the Venatori to be easier than demons, but on higher difficulty levels their archers do insane damage. A shield tank and los/aoe combo can make short work of them, but it can go wrong very quickly. 

For commanders specifically, I'd rank the Venatori in the middle. Demon Commander is hard and gives me real-life nightmares, whereas while the Red Templar commander hits like an angry truck, he's slow & clumsy and therefore relatively easy to avoid. 

I'd have to say that the ranged enemies of all the factions do insane amounts of damage in higher dificulties. Particularly when multiple archers focus on one person, it only gets a little frustrating. My problem with the Red Templar boss is that at some point he gets tired of your long distance relationship and the only way to avoid meeting face to face is to sprint around the nearest corners, 2 of them preferably.

The Venatori commander does not seem to deal as much damage as either of the other two bosses but she is more mobile seeing as how she can teleport. I think her health should be raised a little in routine and threatening dificulties, as it is she is the only boss that I've seen can be consistently killed before the supporting troop waves are exhausted.

While I agree that the demon commander is probably the hardest, I have beaten him several times on threatening. It really helps to have a keeper(or another barrier user), as it can completely negate his burst. Also, if you stay mobile, you can avoid his "pop-up" attack entirely.

If you get his rythm down, I would even say, he is the easiest of the bosses with a coordinated crew.

To me, what makes fighting demons the hardest is the combination of the boss(potentially lethal if uncoordinated) and the adds(green spirits with "homing" ranged attacks, Fear and Despair demons which add a lot of CC and burst, and Terrors, for that extra pop-up damage and AoE fear).

The Venatori is the easiest in my opinion. She doesnt hurt a whole lot and most of her abilities, while powerful, are easily avoided.

IMO, the Red Templars is a close second to fighting the demons. Stalkers can catch people unaware(and kill them), they have powerful archers and mages(that lirium spit) and the Behemoth packs a solid punch and mess up the fighting area. 

The boss, while slow, have very high damage and lots of AoE. When he starts spinning, he is zoning atleast 1 guy(tip: hide behind a pillar or other terrain), his jumps hits so hard and his "splitting earth" line attack can hit multiple targets as well.

Throwing in some archers, a stalker and a behemoth, and you have your work cut out for you.

Anyway, when fighting bosses, it is good to have an assassin or Alchemist to backstab/shred the enemy while the are walking towards a different target(a wounded reaver works too).

TL:DR

All in all, I think the balance is about right(the Venetori is slightly weaker, but that is fine I guess). What I would really love to see, is more stability(crashes, missing skills, sudden DC's, failing to load into the match etc.), an option to mute yourself and a chat option.

concerning team organization and coordination, it's very hard to get a working team when some people don't have headsets or someone is constantly making noise to the point that everyone mutes them even if they might be trying to communicate later.

I didn't mention this before but the necromancer's (one of my favorite classes) mark abiltiy that charms a spirit to fight for you for a time, the spirit usually will not move from that spot and if there aren't any enemies nearby it will just stay there till you kill it or it expires.

Well, that is why it would be great to have a chat system in as well. Some people are not confident in speaking the language or might not have a headset/mic. But most likely they can still read and write english.

Also, there are so many small(and big) bugs in MP that makes it harder to actually get to and beat bosses. Sometimes we have extreme rubberbanding, othertimes, only the host is able to run, while the rest is forced to walk very slowly(they can jump to move faster, but that is not really preferable in combat).

These 2 makes it extremely hard to avoid telegraphed attacks, like the Demon commanders Pop-up attack.

There is also the "no skills or potion" bug when you enter a game, or you health bar being "stuck" so that you cant see what your actual health is.

All things that makes it harder to actually beat the enemy.

Then there is the crashes and DCs that happens for apparently no reason. The game can be frustrating at times because of this.

Still, the game is fun, when everything runs smoothly. Just really want that would be the experience every time. 🙂

Nothing in this game bothers me more about MP than the following 2 things.

1. I can't play my Reaver anymore because Rampage is totally bugged.
2. Chest RNG loot is consistantly horrid. How can it be random if you get the same trash items over and over again? Buying platinum amounts to tossing money in the toilet and flushing.

Have chests only been giving you one class type's gear? I've noticed that I mostly get warrior gear (either weapons or upgrades) and my friend mostly gets bows or other rogue related items. I primarily play hunter/necromancer and my friend played legionnaire/reaver.

It should be a conosistent thing, we're almost at one month after release and I haven't seen any progress towards fixing these bugs... I haven't actually seen any patches at all, it feels like they've abandoned us (probably not the case). Ive never seen the no skill/potion or health bar bugs but when I join games in progress I can't move - I found I can still cast abilities ( and the necromancer can "walk" using her fear circle) but I can't interact with the world and navigation (wasdqe) doesn't work.