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DexiDerp
Seasoned Traveler
4 days ago

Feedback: Companion pairings ruining my drive to play again.

I feel absolutely insane, but I can’t do it. I genuinely despise the background pairing system and it’s making it impossible for me to play a new run. I want to try for a different ending and a better romance, but I’m preemptively annoyed and can’t. I made a new character and can’t get more than 10 minutes past the title card.

Lucanis was my first run’s romance, and it was disappointing. So disappointing that I dread seeing Lucanis and Neve at the Lighthouse, or taking them out in a pair, knowing I’ll have to hear their relationship organically develop in a way that Rook isn’t capable of doing. I don’t want to see Lucanis doing more for and talking about his relationship with Neve more, and all with an initiative/openness that he never had with Rook. I hate knowing that when I lock in my romance with Emmerich, I’ll be subjected to watching Rook’s commitment scene with Lucanis play out, but for Neve instead, as if Rook/Neve are entirely interchangeable. It’s so immersion-breaking I want to physically cringe. Add in the flirt lines they’re both given in Lucanis’ quests, along with the “no time for romance with you” warning, and I’m struggling to give this new run a chance.

I don’t know if anything can be done about it, but I’ve heard similar complaints about Taash/Harding’s banter making players feel bitter about the relationship building they’re allowed that Rook isn’t. It seems like such a small issue, I know, but it’s literally the only thing stopping me from playing again.

Can we get clarification on if there’s a way to prevent it besides just…ignoring the big exclamation point? Does that even work? Has anyone successfully had an intended pairing remain platonic through a run, or do they always hook up if you talk to them?

  • pattealriot's avatar
    pattealriot
    Seasoned Rookie

    With Neve and Lucanis, I completely understand what you’re saying. After doing his romance, and being completely baffled & disappointed, I could not look at him / Neve the same anymore. They basically start flirting as soon as they meet and their chemistry builds more than Lucanis’ and Rook’s even when choosing the flirty options. It is so bizarre and off putting and they continue to flirt even in party banter after. 

    They always hook up, always flirt, Rook is the awkward third wheel always if you try to romance Neve and Lucanis. The writers wrote these characters to romance each other, not Rook. If you play the other characters romances and then romance Lucanis, it is jarring. Lack of context and content. 

    with Taash & Harding I did not get that tbh. Maybe one very small instance of Taash being maybe flirty with Harding. Nothing even close to the outright disrespect of Neve and Lucanis.

    • DexiDerp's avatar
      DexiDerp
      Seasoned Traveler

      I have never been so annoyed with a background pairing in the history of BioWare games, and I’m going to include DAO with the surprise Alistair/Morrigan misery in that pool. The way they did this is my worst nightmare, as someone that has always been very “meh” about the spares pairing off. 

      I feel like an actual crazy person, but the anti-romance of Act 2, unavoidable shipping of the two in the story missions, and knowing what I know about the Act 1 choice has ruined Neve as a character for me entirely. The second she showed up in my new run I was already sick of her. 🥲

  • Willowsle's avatar
    Willowsle
    Seasoned Novice

    Same. I have my new playthrough ready and I wanted to romance Davrin, but I'm not touching it till a mod comes out to block Lucanis/Neve. I'm so incredibly upset I have to watch companions have a better romance than me. I paid for the **bleep** game, NOT NEVE!

  • Midevil_Chaos's avatar
    Midevil_Chaos
    Seasoned Traveler

    Uhm... Not sure what you mean about Taash and Harding. I developed a relationship with Harding ingame. Are you saying you weren't able to?

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