Emmrich's first romance scene resets body sliders

ooohhh so thats what it was...i had a bug where my Rooks pronouns were mixed up..and i only noticed it in the romance scene where Emmrich calls my lady Rook "young man" and (i set her height the shortest possible when creating her) then i notice her being the same height as him...and all broad shoulders etc..i was like..this is wrong...what is happening..and then i checked.. and it cant be fixed...at least the pronouns 😖