Can't link accounts
I am trying to link my EA account to my Xbox account. In the Xbox app, on the linked accounts screen it reads "Manage" next to the EA account, which I understand to mean it is already linked to an EA account. When I press manage it takes me to the EA help linking your platform accounts to your EA account webpage which is little to no help at all. It does have a connected accounts link there which when I press takes me to my EA account management page and connected accounts. I see my linked Steam, Discord, Google and Twitch accounts. Under not linked I see an option for Xbox, when I press it it takes me to a page that says my Xbox account is already linked to another EA account and provides the hidden email 8e*****@disabled.ea.com and wont let me link my accounts.
EA help/support has been useless. All of the links takes me in circles to the same pages that are no help at all and never lets me open a ticket or go to live chat to get help.
How can I resolve this unknown disabled EA account that's linked to my Xbox account? I would very much like to link my Xbox and EA accounts to access the games available on EA through Xbox Gamepass