How do you contact EA Sports customer service?

Well a long story short is I can't link my EA account to my XBOX gamertag. I had an EA account that was attached to an old email account from several years ago that I could not access. I also was given an impression that my account was banned at some point (I assume it was hacked). I was told the only way I could link my NEW email address to my XBOX account was to change my Gamertag to something else.  I have no desire to change a gamertag that is probably 25 years old to something else for one. Here are screenshots of what I get when I attempt to link or old cases were Ii have tried this before and was told change a gamertag or just deal with it. Would love to play Battlefield with friends but I can't do much because I can't link accounts. This is from a screenshot and if it was supposed to be the beginning of my email it is completely wrong. (Account for 82*****@disabled.ea.com). ANY help linking EA to my XBOX account would be great.