Transparent matchmaking settings

I like to play with semi assist because it gives me a bit more control of a dribbling shooting, passing, etc. with full assist it feels like a game of ping pong and not like a simulated game of football. 

So I naturally would prefer to be matched with players who also play with semi-assist or even manual. I've realised the vast majority of players choose full assist. Fine. But can we at least have some way of showing to both players when I am matched with a player who's playing with full assist on. It could almost be like an honour or shame system. It's so infuriating to constantly play with players who choose always the best team and always full assist because presumably they have to win and it can't be bothered to learn how to play the game. 

Please EA at least introduce a system where we can both clearly see what level of assist each player is using.