It could just be a connection issue as well; connection to the servers impacts gameplay in unique ways!
My suggestion would be to try to improve your gameplay. Try looking up what's meta and copying those things. Sometimes, there are in-game mechanics like certain pass types or shot types that make the opposing player do weird things like not be able to catch up or react in weird ways!
I'm not big on playing the meta, I always like to go off meta, but there's just some things you can't ignore!
Hope your gameplay experience improves and you're at least able to have some fun!
I would also suggest that you stop playing and take a break if the game gets frustrating and or if it's getting you mad. :)