REFUND ISSUE

I wanted to refund the game and didn't realize EA wouldn't use the card I last used as the refund recipient. Of course even with me closing the case and trying to email them saying it was the wrong card they still refunded the game. I don't have access to that card and the way EA support works I cant talk to a human, I really don't know what to do I spent $97 and now don't even own the game.