Unable to select plays when playing h2h

When I play h2h, often on the playcall screen I cannot select a play. The controller works fine, in fact I can still favorite the play by hitting the button twice, but I cannot scroll, use the bumpers, or select plays. Curiously, after I take the delay of game I am able to select plays like fine, and then it resets to not being able to, and I need to take another delay to select a play. The problem with this is even when in a private game against my friend, who this also happens too, I get kicked for too many delays. I am on PC, and also have all that stuttering and lags too, even after disabling on field feedback or whatever. This is all since S3 update.