Did I romance Suvi "too late"?

Soo, I'm pretty new here, and I don't know if it fits here, but let's go on for now.

So I started playing Mass Effect Andromeda as a female Ryder, and as I got my crew together, I just didn't knew who to romance. I played a few missions and avoided in the dialogue to choose the "Heart"-Dialogue-Option just to make sure that every option stays available for me.

As time went on, I decided to romance Suvi. Notice that this wasn't right at the beginning of meeting her, but later on when I was already for a long time on the crew with her. It was around the time when I finished my Quests on Voeld and I didn't play too much of main story anyway.

So everytime I came from a mission back to the ship, I first talked to her (since she's so close you know, isn't really that hard) and already took all the romance options I've head available for her. Now, yesterday I've encountered a problem:

Everytime I talked to Suvi, I've had no romance dialogue option available for her, just the standard Talking Options. However, I thought I would've had her already, since the Greeting Dialogue has changed and became more personal.

However, as I finished the "Hunting the Archon"-Mission and Suvi invites me for a tea break in my personal quarters (wtf), I didn't got the option to kiss her. I replayed this scene, to look if there was a bug avoiding it, but nope. Nothing. And when I went back to her on the ship after the tea break, it was a normal conversation with no romance dialogue options either.

So, did I f*cked it up? Did I hesitated too long so the Romance Option went stuck or even unavailable for me?

I remember that Peebee was trying to date me and even invited me for a fling in the rescue pod, but I always stayed on "no bindings", so no relationship. And as she asked me through Poc while she was gone, I turned her down, saying we should just stay friends. So I shouldn't be locked on her, should I?

Please, someone help. I don't want a lonely lesbian Ryder to hang around in Space all alone ☹️