Insanity/Paramour 2&3 still haven't unlocked after recent update.

@swaps55
We are looking into another issue where in-game achievements on Xbox aren't properly unlocked, so that may be causing trouble with situations like this as well.

In the meantime though, do you have any older save files from ME1 and ME2 that you can load and save over?

Some have needed to re-trigger the romance scenes from the prior games after the patch as well in order for them all to be counted properly.