You are not alone with vanquishing quickly. There is a participation trophy policy with playing games. You and team are going to loose when you spawn further away from the battlefield, your weapons seem to take longer to load with less damage to your opponents, and pass very quickly. After land basting my foe with continuous fire gathering points i am killed, I look at there life percentage there sitting at 98% life. Support will tell you its your internet connection, equipment, open ports Udp and Tcp. It does not matter if you have 60 Mbs download or 900Mbs download the result are the same.
I have suggested if they open up more severs to handle the online load instead of purdy bling such as a better looking voice chat which has nothing to do with playing online.
My point is taking turns winning and loosing is suspect at best. Everybody has to take a big bite out of this * samich.
I hope you have better luck and great times playing.