The Legacy Challenge Rules

My heir is now a young adult and looking to find a mate. I'm still trying to get the step daughter married and moved out, but I might just have to move her out because I have 8 in the house already with 2 sets of twins, the heir, parents, and step daughter my founder's spouse brought with him. I could have left her as there was an extended family there to take care of her, but I figured he'd be happier with his kid there and she was only a toddler at that point although she aged up the next day. They are both slobs which is just a total pain. So far I haven't gotten totally nasty traits, my one daughter got neurotic due to rough upbringing, but she likes to keep things clean so that's not too bad most of the time. I had 3 toddlers and 2 infants, but even with lousy babysitters I only had the one time when I didn't get to pick (spin) for traits. My founder must have been woohooing behind my back. I'm still pretty poor, but I have a cobblestone house ... I keep considering tearing down the patchwork and rebuilding, but not sure how much I get back on building supplies. I'm starting to make a little money now though as I have 4 young adults working as well as the founder and spouse who haven't retired, but are getting close to death.