Allow me to add to this - I had the Discuss Fears which wasnt working as it should have - no option on a sim the sim with fear to discuss, randomly I decided to try with a sim that was a bit under enemy... and the option was there! after using it with enemy sim ever since it has behaved appropriately and the option appears in the correct relationship of friendship.
Second tie I did not need to coplete any wants to be able to have them Discuss.
Sims is weird. Try enemy sims when something isn't behaving at first. Try other sims also. occults even.
And why would a sim discuss their fears with an enemy? That does not make any sense. Is that how it is supposed to work? Then why does it only say "discuss with another sim?
