Love struck

jazxmalia​ we won't be getting a refresh as it doesn't happen with newer packs and in fact it's rare to see a refresh at all. But newer packs are constantly being fixed as players report issues. I'm attaching a bug report you might want to take a look at regarding problems with Romantic Satisfaction. You can upvote it on the first post if it looks like what's happening in your game and add a reply if you'd like to do so. The problem was also widely reported on our old AHQ bug forum after the release of Lovestruck and continues to be monitored here:

Romantic Relationships decay/become negative fast with no interaction | EA Forums - 4947168

One thing that helps with attraction levels is to set up their likes and turn ons in CAS to match each other if you haven't already done that. Once that's done, get them to interact again and you should see a notification that a Sim is now Very Attracted to the other Sim.

With the relationship itself I have had varying degrees of success with the Beloved Trait. It prevents relationships from declining. I add it with a cheat to all my Sims. But I've noticed if I'm playing rotationally I'm still seeing some decline when switching back to a previous household that has a partner outside the household.

 traits.equip_trait trait_Legendary

(With cheats enabled using testingcheats true, on Xbox/PS this command disables console achievements/trophies in that game).

I'm not a fan of the Romantic Satisfaction system either. I've had Soulmates blissfully in love threaten divorce after one has just had a (very demanding) baby and hasn't the time for love!💔