how do I remove trait earned from an aspiration?

My goal right now is to completely remove the "Clear Perspective" trait - picture below. It is from one of the Wellness aspirations.  It's the only thing I want to do!!!  

 I have figured out that in my game that the Afraid of the Dark buff is from this aspiration trait or from being abducted more than 6 or 7 times!  I cannot go back and make my sim not be abducted LOL, But I am trying to remove this aspiration trait.  Now here's why.... These 2 sims are my "super Sims", was trying to get the "close-Knit" lifestyle so they quite literally have done everything together!  Unfortunately, the game keeps making strangers be their friends which is another issue altogether. 

My sims partner has never gotten this buff and the only differences between this sim and her partner are these two (2) things.  the Partner has never been abducted a 7th time - I have managed to stop it from happening and I have not permitted Partner to complete this wellness aspiration.  So I know, this buff is occurring due to one of these 2 things. Can't rule out either right now and hoping that removing this aspirational trait will "fix" the problem I do not want for this sim!  If I can remove it, I will share all info I learn, on the bug thread concerning this buff.

  I have done everything I know of and the testing cheat I have which was to only remove the "Clear Perspective" trait - does not work.     However, I will concede that this cheat I have is really old and I don't ever use cheats except in situations like this one.   I have searched the internet and tried other similar cheat commands  and none have worked.   😃Your suggestions are very welcomed!😄 And Thank you!

I have 100% virgin game, no CC/mod Ever