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mazmaz707mazmaz's avatar
9 months ago

I keep being said that my sims cheated when he did not do anything

I am pissed. 

I have a wholesome relationship, they are married with 5 kids and always cuddle at night. The husband is a perfect father but I keep getting this notification WHEN HE ISN'T DOING ANYTHING that he cheated.

Suddenly they are considering divorce, their romance bar lower, their friend shame them etc...

It could be related to the husband constantly having grieving (Which I don't understand how he got) 

I deleted all the sims the husband was attracted to or has a good compatability with, even if he hates them, it didn't change anything. Who is he cheating with ?

5 Replies

  • sheridanhoughton's avatar
    sheridanhoughton
    New Adventurer
    8 months ago

    I haven't had anything this extreme, but I get really annoyed when my married sim is in a conversation with another sim, and his spouse suddenly gets jealous and thinks he is flirting. I haven't figured out how to stop it happening.

  • Sketch793's avatar
    Sketch793
    Seasoned Ace
    8 months ago

    @sheridanhoughton The jealousy is pretty easy to stop. Select one of your married Sims and then talk to the other. Open the Relationship submenu and Learn More to Ask About Romantic Boundaries. Both Sims will learn the boundaries of the other Sim.

    Once they know the boundaries, use Change Relationship and Ask To Reconsider Romantic Boundaries to change their boundaries. Ask To Accept Nonphysical Romance to make them stop getting jealous about their spouse just talking to another Sim. Ask To Accept Physical Romance to let them kiss, embrace, hold hands, etc. with other Sims. Ask To Accept Woohoo for Woohoo, Try For Baby, and Mess Around (Teens). You'll need to do this with both Sims if you want them both to change their boundaries. There is a cooldown period, so it might take several days if you want to change all 3 settings. 

    NOTE: They must be Exploring Romantic Boundaries to change them through interactions. 

    You can make the changes faster by going to CAS. Just open the Simology panel and click the Enter Create A Sim button under Relationship Preferences

  • breaeryn's avatar
    breaeryn
    Rising Newcomer
    3 months ago

    Did you ever figure this out? I’m having the same issue. New save file as well. Every time I place a family it’s happening… help