Missing Clothes

Ever since the last update so much is missing from my game. Especially clothes. I have every pack except for a couple of kits.  For example INFANTS cold weather total of 6 items, Summer total of 8 items, Sleep total of 11 items, Formal total of 5 items, Everyday total of 27 items. And this includes everything outfits, shirts, and pants. Same issue with TODDLERS, the other age groups to much to look through, infants and toddlers have less so a lot more noticeable. I was just playing and everything was fine but I quit for a little while and came back and it said I had to get an update. After that my game wouldn't load. I tried everything, then I took all my mods and cc out but still couldn't open game. This went on for over 6 hours and nothing. I gave up and was willing to lose everything to get the game fixed. So I deleted the sims 4 save file, EA, Origin and Curse forge. I then was able to open my game No cc or mods. A whole new start I had to make my first sim etc. No saves, No sims, No builds and everything was still missing. I then downloaded cc from curse forge ( I only use curse forge for cc and mods) So my infants and toddlers had clothes to wear but most of that is missing also, maybe 2 or 3 pieces came through. I am 70 in July and don't know how to do things on the computer. So it took me 2 days of going on line for step by step instructions on how to delete it.  I love this game I just about play this game all day everyday. What is happening and does anyone else have this issue? If it's something I have to do on the computer I need baby step directions. Please help. Playing sims 4 is what I do. I don't drive and live alone.