Try resetting your sims 4 folder and test to see if the issue remains in a fresh new save game file, without any mods.
https://sims4.crinrict.com/eng/2014/09/resetting-the-game-to-factory-settings-without-reinstalling/
Also repairing the game may help.
Did all of that and the problem persists. i dont have a repair option on either steam or EA
To repair the game if you are playing the game through Steam, open your Steam library, right click the Sims 4 tile, then select Properties > Local files > Verify integrity of the game files.
If you are playing it through the Ea app, go to your library, and on the Sims 4 icon there are 3 little dots in the top right hand corner. When pressing that, there is an option to repair.
