Teen Sims Don't Select Traits On Aging

I know there is a discussion about this already but I can't find it, but I've been having this issue since the Lovestruck pre-release update where if there is more than one teen sim in my household at once something triggers during the time of them being a teen and then when they age up they don't get the pop up to choose a new trait or aspiration. It's so frustrating that this is still an issue, and it's honestly game breaking when you're trying to play a legacy, which is all I play. I can't get through even one generation without this happening. 

I was worried this would happen with my new save, and it just did, even though I turned off active high school and the follow prompts. I didn't have my sims sign up for after school sports or go to prom but the issue still happened. Teen sims will age up properly if it's within a week of them aging into teens, so I just don't know what's going on. 

I don't use Mods or CC. I've sent in saves where this issue is happening before but I now have another one so I'm happy to send in this one too if needed. 

Has anyone found a workaround for this issue yet?