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KushKylie's avatar
7 years ago

Weird Romance!

So, I play on rotation. I’ve got three main households I play regularly. My single lady, Juniper, has a married boyfriend, Tyler. They have twins together, but Tyler still lives with his wife, Roxy. 

I also have Juniper dating her nanny, Roman. 

Today- I played Tyler’s household for a while, before moving on to Colton and Morgan (Tyler’s brother, Roxy’s sister) and their children. When I started playing Juniper’s household, I noticed her previously full romance bar with her boyfriend Tyler was now about 1/5th into the red. 

They haven’t had any interactions that I’ve controlled or witnessed- negative or otherwise- and because Juniper lives with neither Roman, nor Tyler- she’s never been caught (to my knowledge). 

What reasons could there be for a strong romance to turn so dramatically bad? Do my sims interact while I’m not playing them? Is it possible that Tyler caught Juniper and Roman on more than one occasion while I was busy with Morgan and Colt? 

Do the Sims have some kind of journal that logs their NPC actions that I can check back on to find out? 

I fixed their relationship in five minutes. Back to full love, and neither are the wiser. So weird!! 

(I play on Xbox one) 

3 Replies

  • PugLove888's avatar
    PugLove888
    Hero (Retired)
    7 years ago

    @KushKylie, yes, Sims will interact with each other within a Save Game, including Sims you play. 😉  So, while some of the relationship going down is due to decay over time, it is also very likely that one or both of your Sims did something or said something that made their relationship go down.  I haven't heard of any bugs regarding this (and couldn't find any).  But there is that possibility too -- however, it is much more likely that your Sims were just being themselves and left to their own devices! 🤨😃  Especially if you don't play with Mods. 

    As for a Journal to log their actions, there isn't one in the game.  There might be a Mod out there that can do this, but I don't know since I don't play with Mods.  (Too much upkeep for me!  I'm too lazy! 😳 )  Every time the game gets a patch by EA, the Mod creators have to update their Mods and CC as well, or else it could mess up things in the game.  But if you arent' adverse to a bit of maintenance and patience regarding Mods, you might find something that can keep track of your Sims actions/relationships when you aren't directly playing those Sims. 😉  Glad you could fix their relationship! ❤️

  • KushKylie's avatar
    KushKylie
    7 years ago

    Thanks for replying! It’s amazing, isn’t it? That this game allows them to interact like normal, even when they aren’t in view. 

    I was absolutely shocked yesterday when when two sims went off to WooHoo without my direction! It definitely keeps you on your toes. I make it a task now to cycle through my households and make sure everyone’s still happy with each other. 

  • PugLove888's avatar
    PugLove888
    Hero (Retired)
    7 years ago

    @KushKylie, I remember when I first got the Sims 4 when it came out and looked in to all the pre-made families, like the Goths, Pancakes, Landgraabs, and the Spencer-Kim-Lewis families.  but I didn't play them at first because I wanted to create my own family and play them first.  Well, by the time I went back to those families that came with the game, a lot of changes had happened! 😮 The elders in the Spencer-Kim-Lewis family had died of old age; Alexander Goth had grown up, and the Pancakes hated each other! ☹️ This really upset me.  So, when that computer died and I had to get a new one, I installed TS4 on it and made each premade family have their own Save Game so I would get a chance to play with them all in the state they arrived in!😇  But I'm a bit more of a control freak.😳  I have a few families I play rotationally, but mostly I just have a bunch of Save Games so each family is in their own little parallel universe! :eahigh_file:

    And it is a good practice to check in frequently on all the families you play in a rotational game! 🙂  I hope you are able to keep up with their shenanigans! 😃😉

    Happy Simming! 🥳