About the part where they won't stop using the massage table. I too am also finding that recently my sim has been constantly kept trying to do certain things all the time and even dropping what they are doing. Usually, in the middle of a conversation, it does get annoying. I don't think your issue is just a console problem because I'm on the PC version. What I usually do is I will instead of deleting the objects in the home, I will lock the door to everyone the items are in, and this usually stops the problem. This way when I want them to use it, I don't have to keep moving things around, just unlock the door to the room.
