Are you really cheating on your spouse if you woohoo with a scarecrow?

There's a word for the type of people that are into that sort of thing, with scarecrows or "monsters", can't really put that word in here since this is a family site. ??‍♂️???‍♂️?‍♂️?‍♂️

? But hey, you do you, it takes all kinds of kinds to make the world go round