Going by the everyday outfit shirt pattern and their unhappiness, I went with the idea that 'Bob' was unhappy due to being closeted. She has now transitioned with Eliza's support (changing her name to Becca) and they have a much healthier relationship with more emotional honesty. I also changed her Gloomy trait to Goofball, which is more her default personality when she's not depressed. Eliza has picked up a business career, and Becca was automatically rolled as a spellcaster!
Becca is still a slob and Eliza is still neat, so who knows how long that'll last, but they're doing okay now.
(Makeover lookbooks:
Becca,
Eliza. Yeah, Eliza picked out Becca's formal and party outfits because she knows that if she left her wife to it, she'd end up in sweats and a tee, haha.)